I was reading this thread on r/ProductManagement from u/heres_my_take2 about moving from a small company into a large gl
Their old job was writing features and user stories, talking to customers, knowing every engineer's name. They said that version felt like the dream, even if the company itself was rough.
The new job is the opposite. They feel like a substitute teacher who can be inserted into demo, sales, marketing, implementations, or support.
The line that stayed with me was about learning "lead by influence." Instead of running the demo, they now have to convince the people who actually do sales to prepare. Same pattern with implementations shipping on time.
That is a different job wearing the same title. The calendar fills with chasing and poking, and the original craft shrinks.
I have watched this happen when a company wants a PM but has not staffed owners for the adjacent work. Influence training then becomes a workaround for missing accountability.
u/heres_my_take2 asked if anyone else is living this. The uncomfortable so-what is that burnout gets framed as a personal failing when the role has quietly turned into hall monitor.
If your week is mostly making other departments do their jobs, the product work is already gone. The title just has not caught up.
Source: r/ProductManagement, "Stretched thin from other departments, it feels like my job is to get people to do their job" (https://www.reddit.com/r/ProductManagement/comments/1vyckeb/stretched_thin_from_other_departments_it_feels/)